Whatever scenario you happen to be in, it's crippling you and hindering your peace of mind. People might tell you to just "move on," but you just can't.
So what do you do?
Well I think you know the answer.. it is simple;
The fastest way to get relief from your painful feelings is to love them and yourself--love it all Your ready to take it all in!
Because you know what.... You NEVER get over the past.
You can't stop loving someone. Why, your human, love is in your bones, love is in life, love is in everything. This person was a part of your life, your hopes, your dreams, your friend, they were and will always be a part of you. And who knows what the future holds. But today. You just know that it's ok to love them from afar.
It's acceptable to love them and grieve, and forgive. You forgive because it feels good. Because you deserve to feel a little better. The past is past. You can only move from here.
It's outside of your control. You apologize if you did wrong. If they did wrong, you forgive them and love them from afar.
Feel remorseful about your past actions? Love yourself for it.
Feel pathetic that you wasted so much time on someone or a situation you can't do anything about? Love yourself for that, too.
When you do this, you become present, so you can create the life & relationships you want now. That's what is means when you love yourself that much. You are worthy and deserving always! You love yourself past your short comings, your mistakes, your regrets, your troubles, your memories!
The moment you say: "Ok, that happened. I love them and I love me. Good will come of this."
That's when you know your value. You know your deserving of love, and kindness, and respect. You love yourself so much that you know what the right "ONE" will see through it all and adore you. They can't get enough of you. They want to be by your side. There will be nothing that you do, or say, or who you are, that stops they're love for you, they are just glued to you no matter what! They will move heaven and earth to be by your side and love you through it all!
That is what True love is. Unconditional! The "One" sees you as you are, and loves, accepts, and treasures you! They cant get enough of you, your just that good. When you love yourself more, you cant do anything wrong in their eyes. True love is that. You cant do wrong in your own eyes!
Your good enough. Your meant for more! Your heart, mind, soul are meant to feel bright and full! TRUE LOVE EXISTS! IT'S MEANT FOR YOU DEAR ONE!